Reality TV star and entrepreneur Uriel Oputa has taken to social media to express deep frustration over the way society constantly polices and criticizes women’s personal lives — particularly their choices around motherhood.

In a passionate post, the Big Brother Naija alum lamented how discussions about women’s reproductive health and life decisions have become trending topics on social media, often stripped of empathy or understanding.

“I honestly hate that a woman’s reproductive life and health are now public debate,” she wrote. “People forget these are real human beings with emotions, silent struggles, and private pain.”

Uriel questioned why women are so often criticized for their life choices instead of being celebrated.

“So what if a woman brings a child into the world? Instead of celebrating life, people start comparing — ‘when I was breastfeeding, I didn’t do this,’ or ‘why didn’t she do that?’ Everyone’s story is different. Even siblings from the same parents aren’t the same.”

The reality star went further to call out the culture of entitlement that allows people to dissect women’s lives online, referencing public figures like Toke Makinwa, Tiwa Savage, and Hilda Baci, who frequently endure public scrutiny.

“Are you them?” Uriel asked pointedly. “Everyone’s journey is unique. Nigerians can really be shameless sometimes.”

In her caption, she doubled down on her message, urging people to self-reflect rather than criticize:

“It’s disturbing to see people bring a woman down for creating life. Ask yourself why you’re not progressing — it’s your heart. I’ll continue to defend Toke or whoever I wish.”

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Uriel’s words echo a sentiment many women quietly share — exhaustion. Exhaustion from being watched, compared, and judged for every decision that should be deeply personal.

In an age where social media amplifies every voice, empathy often gets lost in the noise. What should be a space for celebration and support has turned into a courtroom where women’s bodies, choices, and timelines are constantly on trial.

Uriel’s boldness serves as a necessary reminder: no one owes the public an explanation for their personal journey. Motherhood, marriage, or career — each woman’s path unfolds differently, and that difference deserves respect, not ridicule.

Perhaps it’s time society stops trying to define what womanhood “should” look like and instead learns to applaud women simply for living — authentically and unapologetically.