Bibi Opens Up About Her Past With Yhemolee, Says “Men Don’t Marry Who They Love”

In a recent tell-all podcast interview, Bibi — the ex-lover of popular nightlife personality Yhemolee — stirred social media conversations after declaring that “men don’t marry who they love; they marry who is convenient.”

Her comments came while discussing her past relationship, love, marriage, and the toll of public attention on her life.

Bibi explained that, in her opinion, many men settle for women who fit into their plans rather than the women they genuinely love.
She stated confidently:

“Men in general, they settle for who is convenient for them, not who they actually love. I was never the rebound.”

When asked whether she believed Yhemolee fought hard enough to keep their relationship, Bibi chose not to make assumptions, responding:

“Only him has the answer to that question. Oh, yeah.”

But the emotional depth of the interview came when she spoke about the pressure that came with being in the public eye.
According to her, the intensity of online criticism changed her significantly:

“I actually did become a shadow of myself. The internet scattered… I feel like I’ve been bullied a lot online. Different opinions, and 90% of them were not even good.”

Bibi also revealed that she had been in another long-term relationship over 20 years ago — an experience that shaped her understanding of love, expectations, and emotional resilience.

Opinion: A Bold Truth or Just A Wound Speaking?

Bibi’s statement — that men don’t marry the women they love but the ones who are “convenient” — is bound to spark debates.
For some, it reflects a painful but genuine observation: many people, not just men, sometimes choose stability over passion, safety over uncertainty.

But on the other hand, her comment raises a deeper question:
Is convenience truly the enemy of love, or is it simply the foundation of a long-lasting partnership?

Her experience, especially with online bullying and emotional exhaustion, might have colored her perspective. Yet, her honesty is refreshing in a world where people often hide their vulnerability behind curated photos and carefully crafted captions.

Whether one agrees with her or not, Bibi has opened a door to conversations many avoid — love, loss, timing, and the reality that relationships in the public eye can drain even the strongest hearts.

One thing is clear: her voice carries the weight of someone who has lived, loved, lost, and learned — which is why her words resonate with so many.