“Swag But No Romance”—Tiwa Savage Opens Up About Nigerian Men and What She’s Really Looking For
Afrobeats superstar Tiwa Savage has once again stirred lively conversation online—this time for her honest take on Nigerian men. Speaking in a recent episode of ‘Thoughts in a Culli’ with GRM Daily, the singer praised their fashion and generosity but made it clear that romance is where they often fall short.
“Nigerian men do have swag but they are not really romantic when it comes down to it,” Tiwa said.
“They know how to swag and splash cash, but I’m not looking for that.”
💭 Opinion: Style Is Great, But Substance Is Sexy Too
Tiwa’s comments have sparked a wave of reactions across social media, with many fans applauding her refreshing honesty, while others felt she was being too critical. But let’s be real—isn’t she just saying what many women quietly feel?
In a culture where "money moves" and "big energy" often take center stage, emotional presence, vulnerability, and thoughtfulness can sometimes be left behind. Tiwa, a global icon in her own right, isn’t knocking Nigerian men—she’s simply asking for more depth, not just displays.
And in 2025, why shouldn’t that be the standard?
🎶 From Love Songs to Real Talk
The “Somebody’s Son” hitmaker is no stranger to love lyrics, but in this interview, she took her perspective beyond music and into her personal expectations. Her statement echoes a growing sentiment among women who are tired of performative affection and want genuine connection, not just grand gestures.
Fans on X (formerly Twitter) have reacted with takes ranging from funny to thoughtful:
“Tiwa is right. I don’t want a man who buys me flowers only when he messes up. Buy them ‘just because.’”
“Men, take notes. Swag is cool but affection is king!”
“We’ve romanticized ‘money’ too much that we forgot how to be romantic.”
👑 Tiwa’s Standard: A New Bar for Modern Love?
In a time where women are increasingly vocal about their needs—emotionally, mentally, and spiritually—Tiwa’s bold words set a standard not just for Nigerian men but for anyone who wants to date a woman of value and vision.
Yes, swag is attractive. Yes, generosity is beautiful.
But at the end of the day, as Tiwa puts it, that’s not enough.
💬 What’s your take?
Should romance be redefined in our generation, or is “swag and cash” still king in today’s love scene?
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