“Being a Boyfriend Is Now More Expensive Than Being a Husband” – Tochi’s Hot Take Sparks Social Media Frenzy

Former Big Brother Naija reality star, Tochi, is once again at the center of an online storm after sharing a bold opinion that has left the internet buzzing. Known for his unfiltered takes on relationship dynamics, Tochi recently stirred conversation with a now-viral post claiming, “It’s more expensive now to be a boyfriend than a husband.”

The statement, shared via his Instastory, has since been widely circulated and hotly debated across social media platforms. Some users echoed his sentiment, arguing that modern dating demands—from constant dates, gifts, outings, and financial gestures—often place boyfriends under immense pressure just to “prove” their love.

Others, however, weren't buying it. Critics described the statement as a sweeping generalisation, pointing out that the responsibilities of a husband—ranging from family provision to long-term commitments and bills—far outweigh any dating expenses.

Opinion: Is Tochi Really Wrong?
Let’s be honest: today’s dating scene has changed. The boyfriend role, especially in a world driven by aesthetics and "soft life" culture, now sometimes comes with an unspoken expectation of luxury. From covering hair appointments to surprise food deliveries and constant weekend getaways, the expenses can pile up fast.

Husbands, on the other hand, often have stability and structure on their side. There's usually a shared financial plan, and emotional investments are deeper than social media impressions. So while it might feel like being a boyfriend costs more—especially early on—marriage still carries the weight of long-term financial and emotional responsibility.

Tochi’s comment might seem exaggerated, but perhaps it reflects a growing reality: dating in the digital age can be pricey, performative, and pressure-filled.

So, what do you think—was Tochi speaking facts or just fishing for clicks?

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