“Don’t Become a Broke Father” — Abuja Lawyer Stan Alieke Drops Candid Advice on Father’s Day
As the world celebrated fathers across the globe on Sunday, Abuja-based lawyer and public affairs analyst, Stan Alieke, dropped a stirring note of advice for aspiring dads. In an Instagram story that sparked instant reactions, Alieke urged men to delay fatherhood until they are financially and emotionally prepared.
“The world is not fair to broke men — not to talk of broke fathers. Happy Father’s Day.”
– Stan Alieke, via Instagram Story
💭 Opinion: A Harsh Truth or Timely Wake-Up Call?
Alieke’s words may seem blunt, but they resonate deeply in a society where economic hardship continues to shape life choices. His message wasn’t meant to shame, but to highlight the reality that parenting — especially for men — requires more than love; it requires readiness.
In many parts of Africa, men are still culturally seen as providers and protectors. While the world is slowly embracing co-parenting and shared responsibilities, the burden of financial provision still weighs heavily on fathers.
Fatherhood is beautiful, but when a man steps into that role unprepared — without financial security or emotional stability — the pressure can break more than just wallets; it can fracture homes.
👥 Reactions From Social Media:
💬 “He’s not wrong. I grew up seeing my dad cry quietly at night. This message is real.” – @ifeanyi_codes
💬 “Being a dad without money is not fatherhood, it’s stress-hood.” – @tony_mann
💬 “Let’s not discourage people. It’s not just about money, love matters too.” – @mama_joye
📢 Takeaway:
As we toast to amazing fathers doing their best, Stan Alieke’s message adds a necessary layer — that of intentional preparation. Children deserve love, yes — but they also deserve stability.
To every man out there: don’t rush into fatherhood to prove a point. Step in when you’re truly ready — in heart, head, and pocket.
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