TikTok Star Jarvis Says Women Move on Faster After Breakups

Nigerian TikTok star Jarvis has claimed that women tend to move on from breakups faster than men, sharing her thoughts amid her recent highly publicized split from fellow content creator, Peller.

In a video broadcast, Jarvis attributed her quick recovery to confidence and self-assurance. “It is easy for girls to move on fast [after a breakup]. No time. What were you expecting? I am classy, I am everything I want to be. So, it is not hard for us to move on,” she said.

While Jarvis appears to have regained her composure and is moving forward, Peller seems to still be struggling emotionally. He recently stated that he has vowed never to give love a second chance and would never marry a Nigerian woman.

The breakup followed a dramatic period in December last year, when Peller was involved in a deliberate car accident in a suspected suicide attempt, reportedly stemming from the tensions in their relationship. The content creator later confirmed that the couple had parted ways weeks after the incident.

Opinion: Confidence and Closure Make All the Difference

Jarvis’ perspective highlights an interesting aspect of emotional resilience: self-confidence and self-worth can speed up healing after a breakup. While men and women process heartbreak differently, Jarvis’ ability to maintain her poise and “classy” demeanor allowed her to regain control of her life quickly.

Peller’s ongoing struggle is a reminder that emotional wounds can linger when trauma and unresolved issues are involved. Breakups, especially highly public ones, can magnify emotions, making recovery even harder.

Ultimately, this episode underscores a simple truth: moving on isn’t just about time—it’s about mental strength, self-love, and the ability to prioritize your well-being. Jarvis shows that with the right mindset, heartbreak doesn’t have to define your narrative—it can be the moment you reclaim it.