"Nice Guys Don't Finish First?" – Frank Edoho Sparks Debate Over What Women Really Want

Popular Nigerian media personality and host of Who Wants to Be a Millionaire, Frank Edoho, has set social media ablaze with his latest take on modern relationships. Appearing on the TVC talk show The Black Table, Edoho boldly claimed that "majority of women don’t fancy extremely kind men." Instead, he says, women are more drawn to “bad boys” who occasionally show a soft side.

His comment has since ignited debates online, with many users chiming in with support, backlash, and their own spicy experiences.

🗣️ “I Don’t Want To Repeat Myself Again” – A Turn On?

Frank shared insights from an article that asked women about red flags they secretly admire in men. Some women reportedly confessed that they love it when their man asserts dominance, like saying “I don’t want to repeat myself again.”

“There are some strange things going on in the minds of these women that you are trying to be nice to,” Frank remarked. “I’m not saying all women are like that, but majority don’t like nice guys. They want bad guys that are nice to them sometimes.”

💭 OPINION: Are "Nice Guys" Really Finishing Last?

Frank Edoho's views aren't exactly new, but they strike a nerve in today's dating culture, where the line between "kind" and "boring" is often blurred. While kindness is universally praised, many people — both men and women — admit that a little edge, mystery, or even dominance can be attractive.

But let’s be clear: toxic behavior and genuine confidence are two different things. The idea that "nice guys" are being sidelined may reflect deeper issues in how society views masculinity, attraction, and emotional connection.

Some women may be wired to seek excitement or "protection," but that doesn’t mean they want to be mistreated. As one X (Twitter) user put it:

“We want someone who’s kind to others but firm with us. We want a leader, not a tyrant.”

🧠 So What’s The Takeaway?

Maybe it’s not about being “bad” or “nice” — maybe it’s about authenticity, self-respect, and boundaries. People are naturally drawn to confidence, assertiveness, and those who value themselves enough not to be walked over.

So yes, be kind — but never be a doormat. And if you’ve got a bit of “bad boy” energy mixed with emotional intelligence? Even better.

📣 What do you think?
Do nice guys really finish last — or are we just mislabeling boring for kind and confident for rude?

Let’s hear your thoughts in the comments. 👇

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