Popular Nigerian crossdresser and social media personality Bobrisky has criticised men with multiple wives or children from different women who fail to prepare a will before their death.

In a strongly worded Instagram post, Bobrisky questioned why some men leave behind complicated family situations without making legal arrangements for the distribution of their assets.

According to the social media star, such actions often result in unnecessary disputes, confusion and prolonged family drama after the man's death.

"I don't know if some of you men are intentionally wicked or what," Bobrisky wrote.

"You've married two or three wives, or you've had children with two or three women. Why not make a will before you leave this earth?

"Do you really want to leave behind confusion and family drama after you're gone? I honestly see that as unfair and irresponsible."

Bobrisky's comments come amid increasing conversations about inheritance disputes in families where a deceased person leaves behind multiple spouses, children or dependants without a documented estate plan.

The controversial influencer has not shied away from offering opinions on relationship and family matters in recent weeks.

A few days ago, Bobrisky advised women against fighting over men, insisting that no relationship is worth risking one's freedom or physical wellbeing. The crossdresser argued that a "classy woman" should walk away once a partner breaks his promises rather than engage in public confrontations.

Bobrisky also recently criticised some female attendees at actor Alex Ekubo's service of songs, questioning their choice of revealing outfits and heavy makeup for what was expected to be a solemn occasion.

On marriage, the social media personality has previously shared a list of personal conditions for any future partner, including financial security, legal protection of gifts, and access to a partner's social media accounts.

Opinion

Bobrisky's delivery may be controversial, but the core message raises an important issue. Regardless of whether someone has one spouse or multiple families, making a valid will is one of the most responsible financial decisions a person can make. It helps protect loved ones, reduces the likelihood of prolonged legal battles and prevents avoidable conflicts among surviving relatives.

While discussions about wills are often uncomfortable, they are ultimately acts of responsibility rather than pessimism. Planning an estate isn't about expecting death—it is about ensuring that those left behind are not burdened with unnecessary disputes during an already difficult time.