Influencer GehGeh Sparks Outrage with Controversial Comment on Women and Motherhood
Social media influencer GehGeh has stirred heavy backlash after making a divisive statement about women’s fertility.
In a video posted online, the influencer claimed that any woman between the ages of 25 and 30 who has never gotten pregnant at least once is a “red flag.”
He wrote:
“Any girl between the age of 25–30 wey never get belle once for her life, na red flag.”
The comment quickly ignited heated debates across social media platforms. While a handful of users defended him as simply “speaking his opinion,” the majority criticized his remark as insensitive, misleading, and damaging to women’s dignity.
Critics argue that GehGeh’s statement promotes harmful stereotypes by suggesting a woman’s worth is tied to her ability—or willingness—to conceive, ignoring issues such as personal choice, health struggles, career priorities, or even societal pressures.
Opinion: Why GehGeh’s Comment Misses the Bigger Picture
GehGeh’s statement is a reflection of a broader societal problem: the obsession with defining women’s value through marriage and motherhood. While motherhood is a beautiful and fulfilling journey for many, it is not—and should not be—a mandatory badge of validation for women.
The truth is, many women between 25 and 30 are prioritizing education, careers, or personal growth. Some are waiting for the right time, partner, or conditions to start a family. Others may be struggling silently with fertility issues. By labeling them “red flags,” GehGeh not only dismisses their lived realities but also adds unnecessary stigma to a deeply personal matter.
Moreover, reducing womanhood to pregnancy undermines the progress society has made in recognizing women as individuals with diverse dreams and contributions. Women are not defined by their wombs; they are defined by their humanity, talents, values, and choices.
Yes, influencers thrive on bold statements, but with large followings comes responsibility. Comments like GehGeh’s may trend today, but they also shape perceptions, fuel stereotypes, and cause harm.
Perhaps the real “red flag” is not women who haven’t been pregnant by 30, but the persistent culture of judging women by outdated yardsticks.
