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Toyin Abraham Has Spoken About Losing A Pregnancy At Four Months

Toyin Abraham Has Spoken About Losing A Pregnancy At Four Months

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Toyin Abraham has spoken publicly about losing a pregnancy at four months. She has said it happened while she was working on set, and has credited Pastor Bolaji with sending her money during the period that followed.

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The thing she is describing is common and almost never discussed

Miscarriage is among the most frequent complications of pregnancy anywhere in the world, and in Nigeria it sits under a particular silence. Fertility is treated as a measure of a woman's worth, loss is treated as something to be hidden, and the practical result is that women grieve without saying what they are grieving for.

Why a public figure saying it changes something. Not because she owes anybody the disclosure. Because the silence is maintained by the belief that this happens to other people, and a woman whose face is on a poster saying it happened to her twice removes that belief from a very large number of households at once.

The detail about the set

She was at work. That is the part of the account most likely to be recognised by women who have never told anybody.

Nigerian film production runs on compressed schedules where stopping is treated as unprofessional and there is no occupational health provision to speak of. A researcher called on the industry only last week to take practitioner welfare seriously after a run of deaths. Losing a pregnancy on a shoot belongs in that same conversation, and it is a harder one because it involves a body nobody thinks of as the industry's responsibility.

The coverage this deserves

Reporting what she chose to say, once, without reconstructing her medical history or hunting for a timeline. She has been through this before and has talked about it before, and the correct response to someone describing a loss is to record it accurately and then leave her alone.

Reporting: PM News Nigeria, Ripples Nigeria and Nigerian Voice.

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