Hi.

Welcome to Talk Talk Nigeria. we provide bespoke curated content on the latest culture and entertainment across Nigeria, Explore our website and see that talk doesn't have to be cheap. 

Foluke Daramola Has Answered The People Mocking Her Weight Loss

Foluke Daramola Has Answered The People Mocking Her Weight Loss

Entertainment

Nollywood actress Foluke Daramola has fired back at critics who mocked her body shape and outfit after she shared her weight-loss transformation online. She answered several of them directly.

woman walking city street fashion
woman walking city street fashion Photograph by Evgeniy Alyoshin via Unsplash.

The criticism that cannot be won

Women in the public eye in Nigeria are criticised for being too big, then criticised for losing weight, then criticised for dressing to show the result. There is no body that is safe from the comments and no outfit that is appropriate, because the comments are not really about the body or the outfit.

BeforeAfter
"She should lose weight""She has lost too much"
"She should look after herself""She is showing off"
"She should dress her age""Why is she dressed like that?"

The same people often write both columns.

Why replying is a risk. Answering critics feeds the algorithm that shows the criticism to more people, and it invites the next round. Many celebrities stay silent for that reason. Daramola chose to answer anyway, which is a decision about dignity rather than strategy, and it is hers to make.
A woman's body changing is not a public consultation.

The point worth making

Weight loss is often a health decision, and sometimes the result of illness or stress nobody online knows about. The kindest default, and the most accurate one, is to assume the person has reasons and that none of them are anybody else's business.

Reporting: Legit.ng, Kemi Filani News and That Grape Juice.

Kizz Daniel Says He Paused His Music For His Mother

Kizz Daniel Says He Paused His Music For His Mother

Peter Fatomilola Says Mr Macaroni Paid Him A Million Naira For One Scene

Peter Fatomilola Says Mr Macaroni Paid Him A Million Naira For One Scene